If theres anything this time in my life is truly illuminating and showing me….
It is that all moments that really shake our inner being and challenge us are really to help us rise and an opportunity for growth
Sometimes in life we have situations that keep reoccurring and we are left wondering why it always ends up one way or another or why we are feel how we do
Looking outward wondering “whats wrong out there” we rarely ask ourselves “whats really going on in here”…. Inside of us…
Life is all a mirror…. we see whats inside of us in others. If it wasnt inside of us through experience or inner being then we would not know what to call or how to define it nor would it affect us in the way it does
How many times have you said something to many people but one person has a super strange reaction… this was a trigger for them. While all others can write it off easily…. they are left hung on every word
We are constantly being triggered by our mirrors in one another… the more blind we are to see it, the more frequently the same situation keeps occurring
We cannot change whats happening around us, but we can change whats happening inside of us…. the way we view it, what we think about it, and how we deal with it when it happens
Right now in my life I have come to realize that I myself have been a runner… when things become to painful and I am hurt… I run, I resign, I suffer silently… I go inward…
Yes its definitely great to get away from things that hurt us, but if we constantly shy away and never confront whats going on inside, all this turning inward will eventually leak outward….
Often unable to speak up and face whats going on… withdrawn, silenced… for some of us this turns to defensiveness and anger and lash out on the ones that hurt us… does this help… of course not
Its alot harder to face your emotions and be vulnerable and live in the heart than it is to put a wall up and just pretend like things are okay
But that never fixes anything. We learn to build walls and prisons within our own being further dividing us from one another and experiencing our highest essence… LOVE
The hardest thing to do sometimes is stand there wounded and afraid and KEEP IT REAL…
Its okay to say “man this hurts”… its okay to be vulnerable…
If someone still looks at you and continues to hurt you, showing your wounds and pain, this shows more about them and one day it may awaken to them
If we choose to put a mask on and pretend its okay. We only blind them even further from being able to see themselves and see us
When we continue to wear masks and never face one another, we can never move forward. We can never rise. We can never grow.
Be real. Be vulnerable. Trust in the greater good that lies in all our Souls… ✨❤
Finding forgiveness, finding compassion, finding understanding… for yourself and for others
Holding onto pain only hurts us.. it binds us up and doesnt allow energy to flow through our life
We will keep running into the same circumstances if we never learn how to be AUTHENTIC and show ourselves…
All things pass… even pain is temporary….. but the liberation, love, and relief you feel for staying true to your inner being, your heart, and your soul… that lasts a lifetime ❤✨
And it only grows stronger each time 🙏