Alot of times when we seperate from an intimate relationship we often find a few things about ourselves to be true…
1. We are no longer who we were when we entered the relationship
2. We’re not quite sure who we are these days or what this strange energy we carry now is… so to say. We lost ourselves?!? 🤪
Many times we do not realize we have experienced an energetic swap of energy in relationships
Physically, Mentally, SEXUALLY
YES SEXUALLY IS IN ALL CAPS. Why?!?!
Because its a complete merging of the two energetic fields and the one that sometimes leaves us the most changed
When we sleep with another person we literally take their energy into our body. The good. And….The not so good…. and all that other jazz….
Their entire aura blends with our own… literally can see this merging of fields happening using resonance equipment. Its proven scientifically
The whole 2 become 1…
THE ORGASM IS LITERALLY THE FINAL PLUNGE and deepest….
Completely merging mind body and spirit through the opening and release/exchange of energies in our entire body
They say it takes atleast 3 weeks to get a sexual encounters energy to begin to wash away and restabilize in your own.
Even longer if you were intimate for longer periods…. and even longer than THAT if you are intimate with multiple partners.
Why does multiple partners or back to back ones impact you more!?
Well you are losing yourself so much and so often its even harder to identify your own energy
When we breakup. We often feel a void we want to fill. Subconscious, consciously, physically, SEXUALLY…. whether or not we realize it. We LITERALLY HAVE A VOID.
When energy leaves, new energy must come in to take its place
While it seems easy and nice to allow it and happily move forward and on and perhaps even re-engage with another soul again…
Try to have your own pieces together first!!!
FILL YOUR VOID back with OWN ENERGY!!!
Otherwise you are offering them not only yourself but the remnants of your last partner… and depending on that went and what your intentions are now… well it may not always be the best idea 😋🤪
Start back with loving yourself first, feeling like yourself again, and cleanse all that previous relationship energy away
YOUR FUTURE SELF WILL THANK YOU ❤
Holistic Health Coach & Nutritionist, Specializing in Detox, Diet, Reversing Cancer & Illness, Ultimately our Reclaiming Health and Wellness
Empowering Others to Work through Physical, Mental and Emotional Trauma, Creating Healthier Mindsets & Habits
One of the hardest parts when changing our diet often is missing our favorite dishes!
Whether its going Raw or Plant Based… the world of pasta has changed for you….
Who doesnt love a bowl of savory noodles in marinara or garlic tomato sauce…. mmmmmm sooooo delicious
Look no further! Heres a health based tasty alternative for you…. ZUCCHINI 🎉
Zucchinis are one of the best foods for weight loss. They are extremely low in calories, easy to digest, can be cooked or eaten raw, super filling and also very hydrating
Zucchini aids in digestion, helping to keep us regular and things moving
Rich in potassium helping to lower blood pressure and help filter our kidneys as well
And of course, they help prevent cancer and are diabetic friendly!
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If wanting to make zucchini noodles you can order a SPIRALIZER online or purchase one in store, they are usually under $10!
Totally worth the buy, the uses you will find make it an awesome kitchen accessory
Whether its Zucchini, Carrot, Cucumber, Radish, or another Veggie. There are so many ways to have fun with it!
Raw or Cooked Pasta Recipe (2 Versions in 1) ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Zucchini spiralized Marinate some Veggies such as Bell Peppers, Mushrooms, Onions, Garlic in Olive Oil with Herbs (Saute if desired)
or simply just chop and do them raw if you would like an Raw and Oil free dish
Sauce can be store bought or follow the recipe below
Raw Pasta Sauce ~~~~~~ 2 Tomatoes 1/3 cup Dried Tomates 2 or 3 Dried Apricots or a Date 3in Chunk Carrot Few Slices Bell Pepper 1/2 Tbsp Apple Cider Vinegar OPTIONAL Slice Onion Garlic Clove Salt or Season to Taste Can also add some Olive oil to make it richer if desired!
For more Raw Recipes and Health Based Alternatives
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Holistic Health Coach & Nutritionist, Specializing in Detox, Diet, Reversing Cancer & Illness
Its time to talk about what we choose to eat and how it can begin to shed some light on our emotional state of being and inner drives.
We are so often being driven by our subconscious that we fail to realize just how far it has driven us somewhere. We keep eating or fueling ourselves ignoring the facts we are actually tired, overwhelmed, or in another difficult state of being. Its no wonder weight problems and food difficulties have become an issue to much of society.
Its amazing what I learned about food and the body these past few years. Its no wonder a huge bowl of greens surrounded by color makes me smile inside and out.
When we decide to make the leap from a Standard Diet to Vegan and then Raw Vegan… it becomes very interesting how differently we begin to view food.
Our senses awakening and body becoming more aware of the increase in energy and vitality. It can be felt almost instantly mentally and physically. Meal by meal, growing more and more at each stage of our diet change. Especially if we reach the point where we are primarily consuming raw fruits, veggies, nuts, seeds, and sprouts.
Who doesn’t spring forward from a smoothie bowl or cup of fresh fruits, salad, amazing mixed veggie platter or lettuce wrapped sandwich…?!? I believe we can almost all relate to this! Yet how often do we find ourselves still drawn to cooked, denser foods, or dishes we grew up with?
When eating cooked foods, a sauteed pan of veggies, burger, falafels, pasta, stir-fry or pizza all taste and sound absolutely amazing… butttttt….. and a big BUTTTTTT….
Have you ever looked back at the photos of your food? Ingredients become a bit undefined, if ya know what I mean. The vegetables colors are lost, a lack of luster and the entire dishes ingredients are often faded completely…. our veggies looked so much prettier before we cooked and killed them
What I mean is.. pizza is just straight comfort food…. you can receive so many more benefits from these vegetables and components when they are not cooked and withered away to some nostalgic memory and meal. We are literally cooking the life out of our foods and we can see it happening. The colors change as the nutrients become lost.
“Life comes from Life” not a Lifeless bowl of food… its no wonder we find ourselves tired after eating sometimes!
I heard a statement once, well two statements that got me thinking alot…..
First… If youre not hungry enough to eat an apple, youre not hungry 😉
Second… All cooked foods are comfort foods… hmmm right? 🤔
So I started to pay attention to my thoughts behind my cravings… and I noticed some things….
I cut out cooked foods…. but randomly I crave certain things. So in my head I always repeat those two statements followed by asking myself…. Am I feeding my body, or feeding an emotional need?
If the body, then I ask, what is it in this food that I am craving? Fats, protein, carbs? Breaking it down to try to understand what lies beneath this “fried rice” craving I’m experiencing… since our body just wants nutrients. NOT fried rice, a burrito, or that slice of pizza 🤪
Roman Jack Pizza, Zest Ubud, Bali
Alot of times its for fatty foods but also sometimes for carbs…
When I am in tune with my body, eating raw foods has always targeted my craving I am having. Immediately the hunger passes and I am left satiated.
Although sometimes I have found myself eating and still my mind and body could not find satiation, my stomach felt like a bottomless pit. Who else has been here?!? 🙋♀️
It was in these moments where I was still hungry, knowing I just ate more than enough… I realized it was an emotional calling…
I begun taking conscious awareness of these times and working actively on the issue. Asking myself in these moments I was hit with cravings, why this food? What or when does it remind me of?
Food can be a source of comfort I began realizing. We grow up gathered around a kitchen table, enjoying food with loved ones, these cherished memories then become programmed into us. Our subsonscious minds often storing and associating the food with the emotional or joyous state of being.
We also all have a memory or two of coming home as a child hurt or upset to having our parent make us our favorite meal. Its no wonder how these two can become so quickly and closely related. Food and Pleasure. Comfort and Happiness.
When we’re having a bad day we are often seeking comfort or seeking a feeling of relief to our circumstances. And we all need to eat to live… hence how these two easily fall together hand in hand.
Our subconscious mind driving us, we may find that we are drawn to crave a particular dish. Your “favorite meal” growing up? The one your mom always cooked when you werent feeling well for example. We have so much attachment to food emotionally sometimes we do not even realize its affects or take this moment of conscious awareness. We just simply have this “craving” driving us.
The most important thing I think I learned eating as a Raw Vegan was learning to cope with emotional eating and most importantly understanding my connection to foods and my own cravings on a more deeper level.
At the end of the day… all cooked foods are basically just comfort foods. If we find ourselves starved and we have a banana yet dont want the banana.. look deeper at whats driving these thoughts. You might be surprised!
Instead enjoy those colorful fruits and veggies!! Its not only a way to balance ourselves emotionally, but physically as well. It can be seen within a few days just how much more energy we can have and clarity of thinking when we are filled with living foods versus cooked.
When we are committing ourselves to connecting to actual hunger we can truly help heal and eliminate emotional issues and help to balance our inner beings. While Im sure you can very well do this on any diet. The amount of clarity you can gain, vitality, and energy is unmatched in comparison to what we can receive from eating raw foods.
Again Life comes from Life… not a Lifeless bowl of food… keep rereading that 😉
Sometimes when things happen that are painful or hurt we often say we are in the wrong place at the wrong time…but really are we?!
Are we ever where we are not meant to be?
Sure its a lot easier to say “its by chance”… What we have just experienced, which may have been painful or uncomfortable, it simply being the wrong moment and time we found ourselves in…. Detaching from the event in order to often make peace with our pain or give us some emotional distance.
But what if we could rise up to look at things a bit differently?!
Take a new perspective 😋 Stay connected to these moments and not disassociate or try to make less of the circumstance. Choose to stop telling ourselves “our story line” we have chosen that helps us to quickly shift responsibility to the outside or others yet doesn’t really help us rise in our potential.
What if we choose to take this as an opportunity to EMPOWER ourselves? To take in these moments as blessings and lessons in disguise.. How much more magnificent would that make our life and this moment we find ourselves in?!
What if the things that we have labeled as painful, uncomfortable, cruel, hurtful, sad… are really put in place to illuminate, teach, protect, empower, ignite, inspire, and help elevate our soul…?!
What if the only reason they are felt as painful, uncomfortable, or some disharmonious emotion is because we are focusing on the wrong part of what is happening?!
There is nothing in life that happens that does not serve a purpose. It is all just a matter of how we look at it. Perspective is always the key in these things ⚡
Energy is never created nor destroyed. Meaning as this energy clears or moves from our life… new energy must come in. What an amazing blessing. New space for new creations, change, improvement and more!
However, if we are focused on the negative then we might miss all these positive gifts and unfoldings that have just come our way.
How many times has something happened that hurt or was painful, but as we make it through and things work out, we find ourselves in a better position, place, or sense of emotional standing?
Our thoughts create the “Law of Attraction” for what will come in and fill the space which is clearing. If we are believing its the wrong time and place, we will not be able to see any of the good that has just entered our way. We must remain open and receptive to the natural flow of life and things. We must remember to stay connected and not shut down or close ourselves off when we feel pain or discomfort.
Remembering always in this moments, that we must rise, we must empower ourselves, we must transform and transmute this energy to that which we wish to receive. Giving it purpose and giving it the energy we wish to bring into our life. Inspired in this moment and grateful for this chance to transcend our circumstances.
Taking back our power, taking back the control. Creating our own Universe.
We are always where we are meant to be… and if our mind still is struggling to accept this way of saying it…. then we can simply say ” we find and give purpose to where we are today and in these moments.”
We must rise up without hesitation, we must be fearless… we must trust in our journey and the path we are choosing. We must always seek and sense the “light” especially in our “darkest” moments. Always consciously remembering that with every thought we create our own reality and what will come to manifest. Remembering our power. Becoming one with ALCHEMY…
Believe in something greater and see the blessings
Sooooo amazingly delicious and perfect for keeping that waist trim!!
Honestly forever a go to if looking for a nice light, filling, yet energetic meal
Simple as… Buying Collard Greens and removing the center stem, cutting the leaf into two. Fill with whatever veggies you have a taste for
These are filled with Cucumber Tomato Carrot Beet Sprouts
You can even toss some hummus inside and pack it with some protein too!!!
Bell peppers, Onion, Spirulina, Radish, seasoning or whatever your heart desires can easily go inside
Place all veggies on one side similar to sushi and then just Roll them up 🥰
For the dipping sauce I used a little bit of fresh young coconut meat, 3 or 4 soaked dates, 2 Tablespoons of Tahini or feel free to use 3 to 4 Tablespoons of white Sesame Seeds instead, and a pinch of salt
If you dont have access to coconut, dont worry! It totally wont make or break the recipe 💗🙏
Did you know that watermelon is NATURES VIAGRA?!?!😳
What?!?! Yes you heard that right!!!
Watermelon naturally works to dilate our circulatory system and increase blood flow….. no wonder theres always so much “Summer Love” happening 😂😂😜
Watermelon helps us hydrate with its 92% water content, is super rich in Vitamin C, Vitamin A, Magnesium, Potassium, Carotenoids, Lycopene and B Vitamins such as B1, B5 and B6
Why are these important?!
B1 (Thiamine)- enables the body to use carbohydrates as energy. It is essential for glucose metabolism, and it plays a key role in nerve, muscle, and heart function
B5 (Pantothenic Acid) Helps produce energy by breaking down fats and carbohydrates
B6 (Pyrodoxine) – Important for normal brain development and for keeping the nervous system and immune system healthy
Watermelon also is rich in Cucurbitacin E which has amazing anti-oxidant and anti-inflammatory effects on the body
Like Tomatoes, Watermelon has lycopene giving it its RED color, which makes it great for Heart Health!! Oh nature youre so clever 😊💕
Lycopene helps lower cholesterol and blood pressure by acting as a Vasodilator helping loosen up stiff and/or thicken blood vessels
Lycopene also helps to protect the eyes and prevent Macular Degeneration or Eye Sight Damage as we age, so make sure to share some with your Grandparents ❤
Eeek, Attention Athletes!!! Did you know Watermelon possesses a very amazing AMINO ACID!! CITRULLINE!!!
Citrulline helps the body recover and reduces oxidative stress/muscle soreness!! Making watermelon the perfect post work out treat!!
And the best part… Its Low in Calories and Super Filling!!
Makes a perfect breakfast!! Getting your hydration in for the day and filled with tons of nutrients!
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